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Aniblaze
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 Posted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 5:57 am Post subject: Going to break up, feel like shit |
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The girl I'm breaking up with has no clue. She just returned to the Netherlands after visiting me in Thailand (I paid for the ticket), but things happened that left me feeling that this relationship has no future (clingy, jealous, possessive, attentionwhoring). I was unsure about how things would go before she came here, but figured that once I would see her, all those feelings would come rushing back. At first I was happy, but afterwards I didn't feel the same way.
I couldn't break up with her in Thailand, because my sister and my friends boyfriend were on the same flight as her, and that would have been hellish. So my plan is to make it clear that I'm doubtful about our relationship throughout the next few weeks, and then when I'm back in the Netherlands I'll break up completely. That way it won't come as such a shock. I still feel like shit because right now she thinks that everything is okay, even though it's not. And when talking to her using whatsapp/text she's a lot kinder. I'm already at the point where she tells me she loves me, and I just send her a kissing smiley back, simply because I don't want to lie to her any more than I've already done.
The major downside being that I can't have sex with anybody else before I break off the relationship, because of my own fucking moral code. I just didn't want my friend and sister to experience a 16-hour long flight with an emotionally unstable girl that hated my guts.
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| Posted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 6:49 am Post subject: Re: Going to break up, feel like shit |
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| Aniblaze wrote: | The girl I'm breaking up with has no clue. She just returned to the Netherlands after visiting me in Thailand (I paid for the ticket), but things happened that left me feeling that this relationship has no future (clingy, jealous, possessive, attentionwhoring). I was unsure about how things would go before she came here, but figured that once I would see her, all those feelings would come rushing back. At first I was happy, but afterwards I didn't feel the same way.
I couldn't break up with her in Thailand, because my sister and my friends boyfriend were on the same flight as her, and that would have been hellish. So my plan is to make it clear that I'm doubtful about our relationship throughout the next few weeks, and then when I'm back in the Netherlands I'll break up completely. That way it won't come as such a shock. I still feel like shit because right now she thinks that everything is okay, even though it's not. And when talking to her using whatsapp/text she's a lot kinder. I'm already at the point where she tells me she loves me, and I just send her a kissing smiley back, simply because I don't want to lie to her any more than I've already done.
The major downside being that I can't have sex with anybody else before I break off the relationship, because of my own fucking moral code. I just didn't want my friend and sister to experience a 16-hour long flight with an emotionally unstable girl that hated my guts. |
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Dude, all women are clingy, jealous, possessive and attentionwhoring.
If I were you I'd talk to her about it, and make it clear that something needs to change or that your relationship will not work. But if you do, don't let it turn into a one-sided conversation where she just sits there and listens to you. And also don't just start telling her what's wrong with her one by one, make it subtle.
Or I have no idea what she's like and don't listen to anything I'm saying.
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Aniblaze
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| Adnihil wrote: | Dude, all women are clingy, jealous, possessive and attentionwhoring.
If I were you I'd talk to her about it, and make it clear that something needs to change or that your relationship will not work. But if you do, don't let it turn into a one-sided conversation where she just sits there and listens to you. And also don't just start telling her what's wrong with her one by one, make it subtle.
Or I have no idea what she's like and don't listen to anything I'm saying. |
I'm not going to do any of that. I'll tell her that it made me realize how strongly I felt about her, and that being apart from her for so long made it fade. And that what I thought was love, was perhaps not as strong of an emotion as I thought it was. That way it's my fault for leaving, but she'll feel that I have been honest with her, so she'll think that I'm a gigantic asshole that deserves to rot in hell, and hopefully afterwards she'll think I'm just an asshole.
FYI, we had multiple fights during her stay here about the aforementioned, but I never said that they were cause for the relationship to end. Why you ask, because during the first argument I had with her I said it wasn't going to work if this continued, and she stopped doing what I found annoying. Later I found out she had replaced me with my sister to bitch and moan about what I told her to stop doing, which led to another argument. If I tell her it will hurt the relationship, she puts on a mask and pretends like it doesn't bother her anymore, only to find out she's bothering other people with it. I don't like that. I'm not one who wants to be in a pretend-relationship.
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