Cheat Engine Forum Index Cheat Engine
The Official Site of Cheat Engine
 
 FAQFAQ   SearchSearch   MemberlistMemberlist   UsergroupsUsergroups   RegisterRegister 
 ProfileProfile   Log in to check your private messagesLog in to check your private messages   Log inLog in 


Am I a bad friend?

 
Post new topic   This topic is locked: you cannot edit posts or make replies.    Cheat Engine Forum Index -> General Discussions
View previous topic :: View next topic  
Author Message
C-Dizzle
Grandmaster Cheater
Reputation: 89

Joined: 16 Mar 2008
Posts: 623

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 12:43 pm    Post subject: Am I a bad friend? Reply with quote

Recently my girlfriend broke up with me. She said she felt completely comfortable around me and liked me but not in 'That way' and wanted to be friends. Am I a bad friend for trying to get her back? I really value our friendship but I want to be more. She also said that when she is with me she is really calm and placid but usually she is hyperactive (You may read this sentence wrong, what i meant was that she is usually hyperactive but when she is around me she is placid) And also do you guys have any suggestions on what I could do to get her back?

Last edited by C-Dizzle on Sun Apr 18, 2010 12:47 pm; edited 1 time in total
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Clairenix
Grandmaster Cheater
Reputation: 5

Joined: 19 Dec 2007
Posts: 715

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 12:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm pretty sure that doesn't make you a bad friend. You can respect her feelings and force your self to move on.
_________________
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
C-Dizzle
Grandmaster Cheater
Reputation: 89

Joined: 16 Mar 2008
Posts: 623

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 12:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

When I see her tomorrow I'm planning on making one attempt at getting her back (Written a letter and everything) and if she still says no i will leave it at that and work on our friendship.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Simisage
Grandmaster Cheater
Reputation: 27

Joined: 11 Sep 2008
Posts: 838

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 9:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

She's obviously not into you.
_________________

Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Fantasy
I post too much
Reputation: 13

Joined: 29 Jul 2007
Posts: 3113

PostPosted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 4:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If it just happened that you 'broke up', you don't right away go back to her. Give it some time. - That's usually how it should be, but it depends on the situation and so on, can't help you with a perfect answer.

If you're really gonna ask her this soon, make sure not to scare her with it, and try to explain yourself. If it's a no, then accept it, and keep your friendship (if you can take it, it's hard to like one that doesn't like you back).
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Csimbi
I post too much
Reputation: 97

Joined: 14 Jul 2007
Posts: 3298

PostPosted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 6:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You just play the good friend patiently.
When the shit hits the fan, she will be running back to you for comfort. At that point you just wait out, and if it's meant to be, it will happen eventually.

PS. This game might take a few years, so go and get other girls in the meantime. She needs to see that you are over her and you need to know more girls. Maybe you won't even want her back in the end - and then your relationship will be purely friendship (which you should do anyway - do not ever burn any bridges behind you).
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
C-Dizzle
Grandmaster Cheater
Reputation: 89

Joined: 16 Mar 2008
Posts: 623

PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 12:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have to be honest, it has only been 4 days but i really think i am over her. I still get that sinking feeling in my stomach when i see her but thats more physical attraction. So i'm going to give it another week or so then start working on our friendship.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Dillonz
Grandmaster Cheater
Reputation: 4

Joined: 20 Jan 2008
Posts: 758
Location: Under your bed

PostPosted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 8:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

http://forum.cheatengine.org/viewtopic.php?t=216418
Quote:
+2. No homework help / relationship topics, rep whoring.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message MSN Messenger
SF
I'm a spammer
Reputation: 119

Joined: 19 Mar 2007
Posts: 6028

PostPosted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 9:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thread closed.
_________________
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Display posts from previous:   
Post new topic   This topic is locked: you cannot edit posts or make replies.    Cheat Engine Forum Index -> General Discussions All times are GMT - 6 Hours
Page 1 of 1

 
Jump to:  
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum
You cannot attach files in this forum
You can download files in this forum


Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2005 phpBB Group

CE Wiki   IRC (#CEF)   Twitter
Third party websites