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C-Dizzle Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 12:43 pm Post subject: Am I a bad friend? |
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Recently my girlfriend broke up with me. She said she felt completely comfortable around me and liked me but not in 'That way' and wanted to be friends. Am I a bad friend for trying to get her back? I really value our friendship but I want to be more. She also said that when she is with me she is really calm and placid but usually she is hyperactive (You may read this sentence wrong, what i meant was that she is usually hyperactive but when she is around me she is placid) And also do you guys have any suggestions on what I could do to get her back?
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Clairenix Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 12:47 pm Post subject: |
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I'm pretty sure that doesn't make you a bad friend. You can respect her feelings and force your self to move on.
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C-Dizzle Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 12:48 pm Post subject: |
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When I see her tomorrow I'm planning on making one attempt at getting her back (Written a letter and everything) and if she still says no i will leave it at that and work on our friendship.
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Simisage Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 9:46 pm Post subject: |
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She's obviously not into you.
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Fantasy I post too much
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Posted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 4:28 am Post subject: |
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If it just happened that you 'broke up', you don't right away go back to her. Give it some time. - That's usually how it should be, but it depends on the situation and so on, can't help you with a perfect answer.
If you're really gonna ask her this soon, make sure not to scare her with it, and try to explain yourself. If it's a no, then accept it, and keep your friendship (if you can take it, it's hard to like one that doesn't like you back).
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Csimbi I post too much
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Posted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 6:09 am Post subject: |
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You just play the good friend patiently.
When the shit hits the fan, she will be running back to you for comfort. At that point you just wait out, and if it's meant to be, it will happen eventually.
PS. This game might take a few years, so go and get other girls in the meantime. She needs to see that you are over her and you need to know more girls. Maybe you won't even want her back in the end - and then your relationship will be purely friendship (which you should do anyway - do not ever burn any bridges behind you).
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C-Dizzle Grandmaster Cheater
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Posted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 12:12 pm Post subject: |
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I have to be honest, it has only been 4 days but i really think i am over her. I still get that sinking feeling in my stomach when i see her but thats more physical attraction. So i'm going to give it another week or so then start working on our friendship.
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Posted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 9:23 pm Post subject: |
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Thread closed.
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